There's something about her......

We all know her.
That woman in our life who we kind of look up to, think is amazing, are in awe of - just want to hang out with, be bff's with, or imagine meeting one day (I mean - how many times have you seen "meet Oprah" on someone's bucket list? - Especially if you're friends with other Life Coaches!) 

There's just something about that HER.
 
Maybe it's the way she dresses, how she has so many amazing life experiences to share and talk about, the way you feel special when you're with her, or how she makes her health a priority.......Or maybe she's really funny, or beautiful, or she's quirky, or a great dancer, or speaks another language.  Perhaps she has a wide knowledge of all kinds of different subjects, or seems to have an amazing relationship with her kids or partner.......

Whatever it is, she's that woman you kind of wish you were more like.  

Why am I talking about this?

Because........

YOU GET TO CHOOSE WHAT KIND OF WOMAN YOU ARE 

I have a friend, she's bubbly, energetic and just busts through the brick walls of her life and business all. Day. Long.  And I noticed when I was with her - I sounded decidedly whingy.

Her biggest strength was something I was longing to develop in myself.  Now I can't do it her way, she has her own sparkle, but my intuition was tapping me on the shoulder, saying something along the lines of "this is a quality you can develop"  "move in this direction please".

Recognising you can be who you want to be - it's up to you - it's a decision you make every moment of every day.  Well that shifts the balance.  It makes everything possible.

So........Who do you want to be?

Be honest with yourself.  Recognise who that chick is, who do you think is awesome and why?
And then ask yourself  - How can I show up a bit more like them in my everyday life?  or What would so-and-so do now?  

And then take the plunge and do it.

Dare to be different.