Isn't it strange how we come to earth, a complete miracle, and then as we grow, we start to think there's something wrong, we're lacking in some way, not as good as someone else - we begin to take on the stories of our culture....what would happen if we weren't exposed to the stories?
If someone says "life's hard" and you don't have the experience of life being hard - then don't nod and agree with them. Let them discover through you, that there's another way to experience the world. You might be the first person they've ever met who doesn't say "yeah it is".
This is how we change the culture, the limits we have, personally and as a community.
Do your own work and support others in theirs - when they ask for help.